Family Lawyers Coquitlam | Laughlin & Company Lawyers Mediators Port Coquitlam Thu, 08 Feb 2018 23:32:24 +0000 en-US hourly 1 https://wordpress.org/?v=6.3.3 Couples can specify division of property wishes in a contract https://www.laughlinlaw.ca/blog/2017/07/couples-can-specify-division-of-property-wishes-in-a-contract.shtml Thu, 13 Jul 2017 22:16:33 +0000 https://laughlinlaw.ca/?p=376 On behalf of Laughlin & Company Lawyers Mediators posted in Division of Property on Thursday, July 13, 2017. More and more British Columbia couples enter marriages with already acquired assets in their respective names. For this reason, signing marriage contracts are becoming a more accepted process than what it was years ago. Marriage agreements give […]

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More and more British Columbia couples enter marriages with already acquired assets in their respective names. For this reason, signing marriage contracts are becoming a more accepted process than what it was years ago. Marriage agreements give both parties the opportunity to discuss goals, expectations, and plans for the future. The contract will contain their agreements related to the division of property in the unfortunate event of a divorce, and although that is a thought often rather avoided, getting it out of the way can provide peace of mind.

British Columbia has laws that provide guidelines for property division by the court. Couples who want to create rules that differ from those that will apply under the province’s family law can do it by drafting a marriage or cohabitation agreement. However, advisors suggest people must not sign such a contract before fully understanding the legal requirements and applications of it.

Such a contract will determine how assets gathered during the marriage or common-law relationship will be divided upon separation — also in the event of one spouse passing away before separation. The income, debts, and assets of each partner must be fully disclosed, and the signing of the contract must not take place on the eve of the wedding. Each spouse must fully understand the contents of the contract and the consequences of signing it.

The court will also prefer each spouse to have independent legal counsel when signing a marriage agreement. All the plans worked out for the division of property can be disregarded by a British Columbia court if it finds the marriage contract to be invalid. This can happen if the court finds that one spouse did not provide full financial disclosure or if one party can show that he or she did not fully understand what the agreement entailed. A marriage contract that was not signed well in advance of the wedding ceremony can indicate coercion or duress, in which case it can be declared invalid.

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Source: business.financialpost.com, “What you need to know before you say ‘I do’ to a marriage contract“, Laurie H. Pawlitza, Accessed on July 7, 2017

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Choosing the right facilitator for divorce mediation is important https://www.laughlinlaw.ca/blog/2017/06/choosing-the-right-facilitator-for-divorce-mediation-is-important.shtml Tue, 13 Jun 2017 22:19:55 +0000 https://laughlinlaw.ca/?p=388 On behalf of Laughlin & Company Lawyers Mediators posted in Divorce Mediation on Tuesday, June 13, 2017. The dynamics of every divorcing couple in British Columbia are unique, and more and more people choose to be in control of important decisions rather than leaving it up to a judge. However, not everybody can deal with […]

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The dynamics of every divorcing couple in British Columbia are unique, and more and more people choose to be in control of important decisions rather than leaving it up to a judge. However, not everybody can deal with all the issues without the negativity that often surrounds divorce negotiations. For this reason, the choice of the facilitator of divorce mediation, like Laughlin Lawyers, is important.

The sole purpose a divorce mediator is to provide a platform for peaceful negotiations between divorcing spouses, and he or she may not provide legal advice. The issues typically discussed in mediation are similar to those dealt with in court. Couples can either have a judge decide on matters such as asset distribution, spousal support, parenting and visitation and property settlement or leave negatives about their marriage behind and deal with contentious questions in an adult manner.

The success of divorce mediation often depends on securing the services of a suitable mediator. Some may appreciate a directive mediator who will explain what will likely be approved by a judge and then propose solid resolutions of conflicts, leaving the divorcing spouses to choose one of the options. Other couples may prefer a mediator who would empower them to make their own decisions. This mediator will encourage communication — and compromise when necessary — and use skilled discussions and questioning to guide couples to mutual agreements.

Even with the help of a skillful mediator, an experienced divorce lawyer for each party will be valuable assets. Any British Columbia resident who is considering divorce mediation rather than litigation may find that his or her divorce lawyer can recommend a suitable mediator. Along with providing helpful input during mediation, legal counsel can go through any agreements before they are signed and presented to the court.

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Source: gailvazoxlade.com, “Mediation“, Gail Vaz-Oxlade, Accessed on June 9, 2017

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Child Custody: Can technology aid parent-child relationships? https://www.laughlinlaw.ca/blog/2017/06/child-custody-can-technology-aid-parent-child-relationships.shtml Tue, 06 Jun 2017 22:20:45 +0000 https://laughlinlaw.ca/?p=391 On behalf of Laughlin & Company Lawyers Mediators posted in Child Custody on Tuesday, June 6, 2017. Following a divorce in British Columbia, circumstances often cause one of the former spouses to relocate. This could be difficult for children who may then have little contact with the parent who moved away. However, with the accessibility […]

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Following a divorce in British Columbia, circumstances often cause one of the former spouses to relocate. This could be difficult for children who may then have little contact with the parent who moved away. However, with the accessibility of the internet, it might be a good idea to work out a communication schedule for video calls as part of a child custody agreement.

A professor in another province has launched a study to evaluate the manners in which technology such as the internet could benefit parent-child relationships when distance or child custody rights is a problem. Data is being collected byways of a survey to study the pros and cons of FaceTime, Skype, and other communication technologies when it comes to dissolution of marriages. The objective of the study will be to build reference material for judges and lawyers, mental health professionals and others who deal with divorces and long-distance parenting.

While the study will provide conclusions, the professor predicts that these communication options will prove to be of significant value in maintaining relationships between parents and children who live far apart. However, she believes that the potential remains for children who were victims of abuse or domestic violence to be subjected to ongoing abuse and control via the avenues offered by this technology. For this reason, some control measures will have to be developed.

British Columbia parents who are separated by great distances from their children after divorce may want to establish an internet communication plan. With the help of an experienced family law attorney, the child custody agreement might be reviewed, and through further negotiations, both parents may establish a workable plan. The lawyer can present it to the family court, and if the court finds the arrangements to be in the best interests of the child, it may modify the existing court order.

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Source: FindLaw Canada, “Study will examine use of technology in child-parent communication during divorce and separation“, Alexia Kapralos, Accessed on June 2, 2017

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Division of property in common law relationships a challenge https://www.laughlinlaw.ca/blog/2017/05/division-of-property-in-common-law-relationships-a-challenge.shtml Wed, 31 May 2017 22:29:49 +0000 https://laughlinlaw.ca/?p=394 On behalf of Laughlin & Company Law Corporation posted in Division of Property on Wednesday, May 31, 2017. In British Columbia, any couple who lives together as a husband and a wife is treated in the same way married couples are treated. The number of people choosing to live together rather than get married increases every […]

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In British Columbia, any couple who lives together as a husband and a wife is treated in the same way married couples are treated. The number of people choosing to live together rather than get married increases every year. Cohabitating couples have children together, and some even buy homes together. However, the division of property in a common law breakup could be complicated.

Some say purchasing real estate is less of a commitment than marriage because it is easier to get rid of a house than it is to end a marriage. Although a common law marriage is legally accepted in certain contexts, it does not provide an automatic right to property. Married couples are considered partnerships, regardless of how they manage their finances. When a couple breaks up, all assets acquired during the marriage are divided, regardless of the individual contributions of the spouses.

This is more complicated with common law relationships that end — especially those that are acrimonious. Matters that will be considered include whether the couple had separate bank accounts and how long they cohabitated, among other issues. The manner in which the court typically determines the division of property in a common law marriage is more like an accounting exercise than an equal division of a partnership. When it comes to the house, it will be each partner’s contribution that will determine how it will be divided.

Common law spouses in British Columbia who are considering ending their relationship typically have many unanswered questions about their rights. The division of property could be an especially contentious issue if it is the end of a long relationship. The most practical step might be to consult with an experienced divorce lawyer who can provide answers and evaluate the circumstances, as well as offer ongoing support and guidance throughout the legal proceedings.

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Source: business.financialpost.com, “When the only ring is on your keys: What common-law couples should know before buying a house together“, Danielle Kubes, May 26, 2017

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Child custody, property division and lately — divorce ceremonies https://www.laughlinlaw.ca/blog/2017/01/child-custody-property-division-and-lately----divorce-ceremonies.shtml Wed, 25 Jan 2017 22:43:15 +0000 https://laughlinlaw.ca/?p=439 On behalf of Laughlin & Company Lawyers Mediators posted in Child Custody on Wednesday, January 25, 2017. January is often reported to be the month when many British Columbia married couples decide it is time to go their separate ways. Some people avoid divorce talk during the holidays — especially couples who have minor children. […]

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January is often reported to be the month when many British Columbia married couples decide it is time to go their separate ways. Some people avoid divorce talk during the holidays — especially couples who have minor children. Although most divorcing couples seek shared child custody, nobody wants their kids to remember all future holidays as the sad time when their parents got divorced.

During January, people planning a divorce will likely get all their financial matters in order, settle as many debts as possible, close shared credit cards and bank accounts and open personal accounts. Being fully informed about family finances by gathering all the financial information may ease the property division process. This month of preparation may be the time to discuss child-related matters.

Although running two households and subjecting kids to two sets of rules can be tough on parents, the best interests of the children are what matters most. A divorce will yield ex-spouses but never ex-children. As long as they are alive, regardless of how many subsequent marriages the parents enter, they will always be the parents of that child. To make the most of the situation, many divorced parents commit to cooperate and be flexible in post-divorce child-related issues.

A divorce can be as complicated as the parties choose to make it, and it is becoming more common for newly divorced couples in British Columbia to arrange divorce ceremonies to say their goodbyes and wish each other the best for the future. While these ceremonies have no connection to family laws, the legal navigation of a divorce can be challenging. For that reason, many people seek the support of a lawyer who is experienced in providing guidance through the complicated areas such as child custody, property division and more.

Source: CBC News British Columbia, “January is a popular time to get divorced, therapists say“, Accessed on Jan. 20, 2017

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Child support: DNA tests can prove or disprove paternity https://www.laughlinlaw.ca/blog/2017/01/child-support-dna-tests-can-prove-or-disprove-paternity.shtml Wed, 18 Jan 2017 21:03:00 +0000 https://laughlinlaw.ca/?p=303 On behalf of Laughlin & Company Lawyers Mediators posted in Child Support on Wednesday, January 18, 2017. In British Columbia, it is possible for a man to be named the father of a child and burdened with the responsibilities even if he is not the child’s biological father. Men who believe they are not responsible […]

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In British Columbia, it is possible for a man to be named the father of a child and burdened with the responsibilities even if he is not the child’s biological father. Men who believe they are not responsible for child support sometimes question paternity. Also, men who want parental rights to children they claim to have fathered may also need to prove paternity. Who is presumed to be a father under British Columbia law?

A man who was married to a woman at the time of the child’s birth, or he died or divorced the mother within 300 days before the child was born will be regarded as the biological father. This can be the case even if the man only married the mother after the child’s birth, but she names him as the father. By admission, a man can also be named as the biological father if he admits to being the father — regardless of whether the couple was married — and if he signed a Child Paternity and Support Act agreement upon the child’s birth.

If a man denies being the father of a child, the burden of proof is on him to show the court that he has no biological connection with the child. DNA testing is available for men in this position. However, if the mother can prove that the man treated the child as his own, the court may continue to hold him responsible for child support.

DNA testing is also available for men who want to prove that they are the biological fathers to gain access and parental rights to their children. However, if a man proves in the court that he is the biological father of a child, he will also become responsible for child support payments. British Columbia family law lawyers can provide valuable guidance to fathers who want to prove or disprove paternity claims.

Source: FindLaw Canada, “DNA testing and paternity issues“, Miriam Yosowich, Accessed on Jan. 14, 2017

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Prenuptial agreements can prevent issues in division of property https://www.laughlinlaw.ca/blog/2017/01/prenuptial-agreements-can-prevent-issues-in-division-of-property.shtml Thu, 12 Jan 2017 22:49:38 +0000 https://laughlinlaw.ca/?p=442 On behalf of Laughlin & Company Lawyers, mediators posted Division of Property on Thursday, January 12, 2017. While conversations about prenuptial agreements used to be uncomfortable, more and more British Columbia couples find it the best way to protect their individual assets — not only in the event of a divorce but also if one spouse […]

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While conversations about prenuptial agreements used to be uncomfortable, more and more British Columbia couples find it the best way to protect their individual assets — not only in the event of a divorce but also if one spouse should die. Many couples marry a bit later in life, and others marry for a second or subsequent time, and they enter marriages with already acquired assets that need protection in the division of property. Furthermore, prenups are not limited to asset allocation but can include directives on how the couple will handle finances and more during the marriage.

The first requirement of a prenuptial agreement is a comprehensive list of each spouse’s assets that they will bring into the marriage — along with their existing debts. Any assets acquired after the wedding date will be a marital property that will belong to both. Spouses usually have different spending and saving habits, and they can use the prenup to set ground rules related to how they will administrate their incomes and assets. They can also stipulate how they will handle the payment of existing debt.

Matters other than financial, such as commitments and responsibilities with raising children and household tasks, can be addressed in the marital agreement. If one spouse advances his or her education while the other spouse works, they may want to consider the position of the person who put in hours at work in the event of a divorce. Similarly, potential spousal support may be included for one spouse who may become a stay-at-home parent and will be at a financial disadvantage if the marriage ends.

These are just some of the matters to consider when drafting a prenuptial agreement. Each spouse’s legal representative must be present to ensure both spouses sign the document out of free will and that no intimidation or coercion takes place. Experienced British Columbia family law attorneys can provide valuable advice and input during the drafting of the agreement to ensure the fair division of property should one spouse die or in the event of a divorce.

Source: Marriage.com, “Prenuptial Agreement Checklist“, Accessed on Jan. 7, 2017

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How important is it to stay organized during divorce? https://www.laughlinlaw.ca/blog/2016/07/how-important-is-it-to-stay-organized-during-divorce.shtml Tue, 26 Jul 2016 18:19:39 +0000 https://laughlinlaw.ca/?p=512 On behalf of Laughlin & Company Lawyers Mediators posted in Division of Property on Tuesday, July 26, 2016. While you don’t need to start color-coordinating your files or rush out for a few label makers, making a concerted effort to stay organized as you move through the divorce process can make it much easier and less stressful. Here are […]

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While you don’t need to start color-coordinating your files or rush out for a few label makers, making a concerted effort to stay organized as you move through the divorce process can make it much easier and less stressful. Here are three tips to get you started.

1. Establish a central location for all divorce-related paperwork. If you have a home office, this is a good spot. If not, look for a flat surface where you won’t have to move things out of the way — your dining room table isn’t a good choice — and that’s close to a calendar and wherever you make most of your phone calls. Having everything in one place means that you can easily access any information your attorney needs without having to spend the day searching.

2. Document everything. Documentation is key to any legal situation, but it’s especially important in divorce cases when your personal and home life is bound to be in a bit of disarray. Get in the habit of keeping a journal where you can write down when you talk to your ex and the topic of conversation. This can also be a place to write down questions for your next meeting with your attorney so you don’t forget.

3. Get your own mailbox. Whether you or your ex is the one moving out, right now both of you are likely getting mail and other important documents delivered to the house. Getting a post office box can ensure that you have a way to communicate without worrying about your ex-intercepting anything. If you currently use a joint email account, you’ll want to establish your own immediately.

If you have questions about what you should be keeping track of, ask your lawyer. By being able to access and provide him or her with needed documentation, you can help make the process a little easier.

Source: Forbes, “Why Women Who Are Organized Often Do Better in Divorce,” Jeff Landers, accessed July 26, 2016

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Judge removes himself from divorce, citing parents’ attitudes https://www.laughlinlaw.ca/blog/2016/07/judge-removes-himself-from-divorce-citing-parents-attitudes.shtml Thu, 21 Jul 2016 18:20:57 +0000 https://laughlinlaw.ca/?p=515 On behalf of Laughlin & Company Lawyers Mediators posted in Child Custody on Thursday, July 21, 2016. A British Columbia family court judge has ruled that one divorced couple needs to move on with a new judge. It seems the parents ended up back in court in 2013 to address the father’s wish to have the parenting time order modified. The […]

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A British Columbia family court judge has ruled that one divorced couple needs to move on with a new judge. It seems the parents ended up back in court in 2013 to address the father’s wish to have the parenting time order modified. The order originally granted the mother the bulk of the time, and the father was asking for a more equal time split. However, this quickly went downhill with the parties criticizing the other’s parenting style and using manipulative and bullying tactics to try to get their way.

In the ruling, the judge indicated that he was a “known quantity” and that the progress of the proceedings had largely stalled because of this. In effect, the judge was saying that the situation was so high conflict and the two parties were locked against each other that it may take an entirely new judge to get the parties to pause and reevaluate their positions.

So what you can we learn from this example? The first takeaway is to do your best to make the divorce — and any proceedings that take place after the final decree — as low conflict as possible. Doing so will save both you, your ex and your children a great deal of stress and emotional upheaval.

The second is that sometimes those going through a divorce are too involved in the situation to recognize when things are getting out of control. Having a lawyer help you through the process can be a good way to have an objective third-party ensure you are focusing on resolving issues.

Source: CBC News, “Judge breaks up with couple in high conflict divorce,” Jason Proctor, July 17, 2016

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