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What is Parenting After Separation?

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On behalf of Laughlin & Company Lawyers Mediators posted in Divorce Mediation on Friday, May 13, 2016.

Divorce mediation can be an excellent option for parties who want to end their relationships but without all of the fightings. The mediation process can be especially helpful and beneficial for divorces or separations involving children. The less strife and contention surrounding the divorce, the easier it may be for the children to transition.

However, what happens when the divorce settlement is almost ready to be signed? How can you keep that atmosphere of teamwork and looking out for the best interests of the children as you move into your new lives? One of the things that the family courts believe can help with this is taking the Parenting After Separation session, which is required for most divorces with children.

Most people are required to take the Parenting After Separation session early on in the divorce process. However, there are some exceptions. If you are filing a consent order or have applied for a protection order you may be automatically exempted. Other situations that may result in an exemption include an immediate risk to you or your child’s safety, the presence of a serious health problem or you have taken the session already within the past two years.

The Parenting After Separation session will help you learn how to extend the respect and civility of the mediation process to your new family dynamic after the papers are signed and everything is finalized. It may also help you and your ex-understand the importance of working as a team to successfully co-parent your children. If you have questions about the Parenting After Separation session or the divorce mediation process, we can help.

Source: B.C. Government, “Do I have to take Parenting After Separation?” accessed May 13, 2016

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(604) 945-4370

Dividing property during a divorce requires thought

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On behalf of Laughlin & Company Lawyers Mediators posted in Division of Property on Friday, March 25, 2016.

Getting a divorce involves a host of different considerations. One of the issues that you have to go through is the property division. This isn’t always something that is easy to do. Instead, you might find that some items are the subject of contention. We can help you to learn about what options you have when it comes to property division.

One of the biggest items that might become the source of a fight in the house. If you own your home, there are several different points that you have to think about. The main point is how much you still owe in payments on your home. This can be a big downfall if you are going down to one income after the divorce. You have to think about the payments for the home, as well as the maintenance of the home.

You also have to think about all of the debt that you have because you don’t want to end up being the person who has to pay off all the debt without getting any of the assets. This can make or break your settlement. We can help you learn how to balance out the debts and assets so that you come out with a settlement that puts your best interests at the heart of the matter.

Being informed is one of the best things that you can do when you are filing for a divorce or when your ex-has filed for a divorce. We can help you to learn how the British Columbia laws pertain to your case.

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Laughlin & Company Lawyers Mediators
2755 Lougheed Hwy #710, Port Coquitlam, BC V3B 5Y9
(604) 945-4370

What kinds of actions can undermine mediation?

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On behalf of Laughlin & Company Lawyers Mediators posted in Divorce Mediation on Friday, February 12, 2016.

Divorce mediation can be an invaluable tool for those who want to make the process of ending their relationships as quick and painless as possible. However, mediation is also a rather fragile process, and it doesn’t take much for one party to feel like the other is being too adversarial for it to work. Here are a few of the things to avoid when you are working through a divorce mediation.

One of the biggest things to avoid is dating. While you may want to focus on moving on quickly, there are often still a lot of feelings involved with couples who are divorcing. If your soon-to-be ex-finds out that you are already romantically involved with someone or actively looking for a new partner, there could be enough of a flare up in the anger and resentment to stall or put a complete stop to your mediation negotiations.

It’s also a good idea to avoid airing your divorce on any social media. While you’re at it, you’ll also want to avoid snooping on what your ex is doing too. Social media pages are fair game if the mediation doesn’t work out and the case ends up going to trial. Keeping track of what your ex is saying or doing makes it harder for you to be objective in the mediation process.

It’s best to go over what you should avoid and what is OK during the mediation with your lawyer. Having this conversation early on in the process makes it easier for you to be able to give mediation your best effort.

Source: Forbes, “Divorcing Women: Don’t Make These Five Costly Mistakes,” accessed Feb. 12, 2016

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Laughlin & Company Lawyers Mediators
2755 Lougheed Hwy #710, Port Coquitlam, BC V3B 5Y9
(604) 945-4370

Kelly Rutherford loses right to travel with children

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On behalf of Laughlin & Company Lawyers Mediators posted in Child Custody on Thursday, December 24, 2015.

After more than three years, the custody battle between Daniel Giersch and actress Kelly Rutherford has come to a close. The couple has been involved in a heated custody dispute over their two children, now ages 6 and 9, since their divorce in 2012. At that time, Giersch had to return to Europe after there was an issue with his visa, and the judge in the case ruled the children could go to live with him since he would not be able to travel to the United States to see them.

The parents continued to disagree over the custody arrangement, however, with both sides accusing the other of parental alienation and making it difficult to have the court-ordered access to the children. The case came to a head earlier this year after the children had been in the United States to spend their summer vacation with their mother. At the end of the court-ordered visitation time, Rutherford refused to return the children.

It appears she had hoped that the U.S. courts would grant her custody of the children and allow them to come live with her again, but because she had moved from her original state of residence, the U.S. courts refused jurisdiction, officially sending the case to Monaco where the children have been living for the past few years.

The Monaco courts sealed their jurisdiction after they awarded Giersch full custody of the children and limited the actress’ visitation with the kids to Monaco or France. It is believed that the actress’ refusal to return the children earlier this year weighed heavily in this decision because she proved she could not be trusted to abide by the court order.

This very long and complicated case is a good example of everything that can happen when you are dealing with international custody cases. It also shows why it is important to always abide by the standing court orders and go through your lawyer to make and file for a modification.

Source: Cambridge Times, “Kelly Rutherford will ‘do better’,” Dec. 16, 2015

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Laughlin & Company Lawyers Mediators
2755 Lougheed Hwy #710, Port Coquitlam, BC V3B 5Y9
(604) 945-4370

How can I make coparenting easier during the holidays?

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On behalf of Laughlin & Company Lawyers Mediators posted in Child Custody on Monday, November 30, 2015.

The holidays are an exciting time for young and old alike as the magic of the season bring the year to an end. This is usually a time for family traditions and seasonal get-togethers, but if you and your ex-are divorced, it can make figuring out how to handle the holidays with children challenging. Children can often feel caught between their parents during this time, but taking a few simple steps can help you navigate co-parenting the holidays with ease.

Almost all couples who are divorced with children have some type of formal schedule for parenting time. This is usually done to ensure the children get enough access to both parents, and it also helps decrease communication issues and conflict between the parents as well.

However, the holidays are a time when you may want to be more flexible if your situation allows for it. If you are on good terms with your ex, it might make sense to talk about how you want to handle the holidays and any special gatherings and make a parenting schedule that best fits that plan. As always, try to put this in writing for easy reference for both sides.

It’s also important to remember that the focus should continue to remain on the children. If you want your children to accompany you to your employer’s annual Christmas party but they’d rather go pick out a tree with your ex, it might be best to let the children pick. It’s important during this season to always pause and honestly evaluate your decisions to ensure they are in the best interests of the children.

Source: The Huffington Post Canada, “3 Tips For Creating Joyful Holidays As Co-Parents,” Anna Giannone, accessed Nov. 30, 2015

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